Conditional Love
1. When you’re ready to find a partner, keep an open heart and get to know each other well first. Don’t rush into love.
2. If you know it’s not right or you don’t match, don’t force it. Politely decline.
3. Don’t let yourself fall for someone who doesn’t love you back. One-sided love is painful.
4. Love someone who loves you back. That’s how love can flourish.
5. Trust your feelings; you can tell who loves you, who deceives you, and who’s just keeping you as a backup. #Accept the truth, don’t deceive yourself.
6. Once you decide on someone, it’s a learning experience; it’s just the beginning. #Don’t assume it’s true love.
7. Heartbreak and disappointment hurt the most the first time. But later on, we learn to accept and move on quickly.
8. Love as partners has conditions, so accept from the start that nothing is certain.
9. Love is about mutual support. If one side only takes and never gives, the love won’t survive.
10. Giving love doesn’t always mean giving money or things. It means caring for each other, supporting each other, being there to listen and advise one another through problems without taking advantage.
11. Being clear about everything prevents feelings of suspicion, fostering trust that can develop into true love.
12. In the early stages of love, everything seems great. People don’t show their true selves but act according to what the other person likes.
13. The “expiration date” phase is real; both parties reveal their true selves since pretending is no longer possible.
14. The expiration may come, but if hearts remain open, they can adapt to each other and accept their true selves. #This can lead to lifelong partnership.
15. It’s crucial to truly love yourself, to be happy with the present. When your energy is at a high frequency, you will attract good things, meaning the chances of meeting a good partner increase.
If you are happy being single, feel free to skip this section. Enjoy the freedom of living life on your own terms.
If you want a partner but are currently single, don’t despair about being alone. Focus on what you want to do for yourself; when the time is right, your match will appear.
Inspired by Kru Pru Pae
With love,
Wishing everyone joy in the lessons before finding true love.
Hanna
